Woman Loses It After Husband Eats Her Lasagna

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    Font - r/AmltheAsshole u/ThrowawayHubbs3 · 13h AITA for losing it after my husband ate from the lasagna I prepared for my niece's birthday?
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    Font - Font - My niece's (13) birthday was last Wed. She's the most intelligent, most creative kid in the family. She loves her Auntie's (me) lasagna and says it's to die for. For her birthday, she asked thatI make her lasagna cause she loves it so much and having it will complete her happy day, I agreed with no hasitation. The day before her birthday I got to work. I went shopping for ingredients and spent hours in the kitchen to prepare it.
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    Font - Font - At 3pm My husband got home, had lunch then opened the fridge to grab a drink and saw the lasagna. He asked about it and I answered this lasagna was made for my niece's birthday. I told him I made family size portion so we could all eat together there at my parents house. He was like "oh, really?". I asked him to please not touch it and he said he won't.
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    Font - Rectangle - He fell asleep on the couch after checking his phone as I went upstairs to get stuff done. At 4pm I came downstairs to wake him up to go to my parents and found him already sitting up with plate in hand. I looked closer and saw he took a piece of the lasagna and ate it.
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    Font - Font - I looked at him he asked "are you okay?..hungry?" While offering leftovers from his plate I lost it on him and asked why he touched the lasagna when I already warned against touching it since it was for my niece's party.
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    Font - Font - He said " I woke up feeling hungry" okay but he already had lunch and other snacks available in the fridge. He replied he really wanted to get a piece and couldn't wait til we got to my parents and reminded me that he loses his apetite at my parents house.
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    Font - Font - I called him unbelieveable cause he ruined how the lasagna looked when he cut the middle of it and messed it up by a kid. I spent time, money, effort on it and he casually said "No big deal" but to me it is especially sine I told him this was for my niece's party. He said I was overreacting and needed to chill because he was hungry and it's not like he ate the whole thing. And then suggested I stop by the supermarket and grab one if It's that "important" as he quoted with his finge
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    Font - We got into an argument over this and he ended up not going saying it's cause of how treated him over lasagna. When I got home he kept giving me cold shoulder, didn't even ask how things went after what he did.
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    Font - Font - My husband has ADHD but normally he understands when I ask him to leave stuff alone. He also loves food and his favorite is lasagna. While there was no harm with him taking a piece, I just lost my temper which is a bad thing. 4 13.2k Q 1.7k ↑, Share
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    Font - Font - the-willow-witch · 13h ADHD doesn't mean you can just do whatever and not get blamed. Your husband completely disregarded what you said and was disrespectful to you. Just because it's not important to him doesn't mean it's not important. NTA and your husband absolutely is one. 1 2.4k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - CalmMess116 • 13h Asshole Aficionado [12] NTA. This type of entitled nonsense blows my mind. Your husband has less self control than a 5 year old. 4 3k 3 ...
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    Font - Font - Kristieboo96• 13h 3 4 Awards NTA. I can't even work out your husband's train of thought in this one. Sounds like he's just an entitled Ah who wanted Lasagna and didn't give af about your time or your niece's happiness. I'd have lost my cool too, probably not the most mature way to handle a dispute, but in the moment being disrespected like that would make me really lose my cool.
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    Font - Font - kaleidoscope-eyes · 13h 5 Awards NTA but these stories always make me really sad to read. I would honestly rather be alone forever than marry a man who treated me this way. ↑ 9k ...
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    Font - Font - KhalDrogHeaux • 13h Certified Proctologist [27] NTA and i am very curious if he frequently sabotages things that are important to you? is he always this selfish and inconsiderate or does he only act up when your family is involved? edited to add: as someone with adhd, it does not prevent me from understanding that if someone asks me not to eat something i should not eat it! 1 1.4k 3 ...
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    Font - Font - Airregaithel • 13h You're NTA, of course, your husband is the AH. But l'm curious-why the middle? That is so strange. I can't figure out why anyone would start in the middle of a pan of lasagna! 872 ...
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    Font - Font - Likeomgitscrystal · 13h NTA. Him having ADHD has nothing to do with his selfish actions. My boyfriend has ADHD. His favourite food is my lasagna. If I made it for us to eat at someone elses place there is not a single chance he would touch it because he is a thoughtful, considerate person who understands the joy of sharing food you've put love into with others. Your husband sounds like a jackass. 4 82 3 ...

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